21 Utos ni Bob Ong

I just can't help it.. I need to post this..

Realistic..

Bold..

It hurts but hell it's so true!

Here You Go:

21 Utos ni Bob-Ong

1. “Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka niya.”

2. “Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”

3. “Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

4. “Huwag na huwag kang hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

5. “Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para

sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”

6. “Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din.”

7. “Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.”

8. “Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

9. “Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na hindi mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”

10. “Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo ung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga ung una.”

11. “Hindi porke’t madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang

friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa.”

12. “Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totoong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka.”

13. “Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.”

14. “Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw ung bida sa script na pinili niya.”

15. “Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.”

16. “Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala.”

17. “Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohanan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan.”

18. “Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, huwag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lang yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo.

Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit?

Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!”

19. “Pakawalan mo ung mga bagay na nakakasakit sayo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.”

20. “Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”

21. “Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal…nakakatakot mahulog…at kapag nahulog ka, it’s either by accident or talagang tanga ka.

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So now tell me, which of these rules best apply to you right this moment?

Pig!

I just watched the most talked-about sex scandal of the hunk doctor Hayden Kho and the sexy actress Katrina Halili. I wish i could post the vids but its already illegal - sigh! I think hayden is hot, as well as katrina, enough to fantasize and perhaps be entertained by their nasty video.

I wasn't!

I felt sorry for the girls that he taped with without their consent. Whatever a couple intimately do is never our business. If they tape it, it should be permitted by the people involve.

In the video..

Who wouldn't fall for him? Tall, hottt and juicylicious doctor hayden kho is a 'primera klase'. Gosh! With that face? He looks like he couldn't hurt an ant. Katrina really had a blast. Hayden's performance on bed was mouth-watering.. hahaha.. it really was.

But then again..

The fact that she didn't know she was recorded remains. So sad for her.. Unjust and unfair.. It goes out to all the other girls that hayden taped without their permissions too.

Hayden.. Sick.. Pig!

Bluejay Coffee and Deli

I am havin a vacation here in iloilo for about a week now. And in my stay here, i usually hang out at Bluejay Coffee and Deli. It is one of the major coffee shops here. Their biggest competitor is Coffee Break - biggest shop around. Too bad starbucks can't be found anywhere here :(

I like this cafe because their coffee is better than Coffee Break. It's very affordable - it seems like if cebu has bo's, here in iloilo, they have bluejay. The coffee in Coffee Breaks really sucks (for me). I dont like the taste which is like a squeezed tabako leaf. Disgusting! I could hardly finish up a small cup of it.

Bluejay also serves good food. I like their sandwiches. My favorite is the sausage sandwich - fairly sliced hungarian sausage with rich filling of cheese, veggies and spices. Yummy! And by the way, they also have unlimited wifi access. I just dont like the charge for battery charging - php25 per hour - but its better than no wifi at all. They currently have 2 branches - inside Smallville and one at the corner of Gen. Luna St. They'll soon open another shop in the new mall - Amigo Plaza Mall (fronting SM downtown).

Well, while iloilo still doesn't have starbucks, i got Bluejay to attend my coffee cravings and online journeys.

These Bosses Rock!

I started working when i was eighteen. It came to a point when i was bored going to school, depending on my folks, and asking money from them. And so i hurriedly dived in to the employment world. To date, i already have 6 employers. Imagine!

In every company that i join, i got favorites and not-so favorite bosses. Well, this blog will be talking about my favorites - i will make one for my not-so fave bosses soon! Promise.

Sir Bert

To start, he was my first boss - first fave as well. He just has this charisma in dealing with people. He manages the store well and takes good care of his staff. He is also very strict when it comes to the quality of our work. But his strictness was not the type wherein you'd get annoyed or irritated. He handled every situation well and made sure we get to realize the positive side of his reprimands. What i cant forget about him is the way he facilitates our monthly meeting. No dull moments. He was very creative and generous as well. Whenever our store has a new product, he wouldn't hesitate to allow us to give it a try.

Jays

He was the coolest and most understanding boss ever! I was never the best in the team yet he still cared for me. I was also the black sheep. If I had a different boss, i would've been terminated soon. When we had our one-on-one, he talks to me as if im his younger brother. I never felt so "cared" from a superior the way he cared for me. But dont get me wrong, he takes care of all his agents equally. I salute him - one of the best!

Reese

What makes an excellent team is the manager who supervises it. Aside from being a boss, she is also a very good friend. As they say, birds with the same feathers... haha! She never got tired of inspiring all of us - her team. Anyway, what i can't forget about her is the way she stood up for me all the way to my success. She supported me and believed me in what i am capable of. She fought for me. For that, she created a great impact in my life. I couldn't thank her enough.

These people all made my life at work a breeze and kept me on my toes. I learned A LOT from them that until now i still am practicing it. Whats common about them as that they all got a "heart" for their subordinates. They don't fail to motivate me and helped me grow professionally.

What can I say - THANK YOU!

You Rock!

Sandra Saifert - Ms. Philippines Earth 2009

The global environment is changing dramatically each day, as a response to these changes, what would you like to change in your self that will make you a better pro-environment person?

This was the final question for the 2009 Ms. Philippines Earth Pageant. Ms. Sandra Saifert perfectly delivered her smart answer with full of poise and confidence. She deserves the title and I bet we have a strong candidate for this year's Ms. Earth 2009 pageant.

Britney, Amy And Me

"If You Seek Amy" - Britney Spears

Its the title of her new single from her album "Circus".

She had been crazy, slutty, miserable, terrible, and what have you's yet she came back and took her usual slot again - NUMBER ONE! I am not ashame to admit that I am a fanatic. Haha! I can hear your laughs and prolly smirks of disgust but what the heck.. I love her!

I am not the type of fanatic who researches her bios and take note of her life story. In fact, I am not interested. What made me so fond about her is where she is best at - entertainment. I admit that she doesn't have a powerful voice yet the fact still stays that she can somehow, sing. Now, match it up with how a great dancer she is, every performance is at its highest level. Her music evolves according to the stages of her life and shows who she really is - a sexy, hot and dazzling bitch. She's may be a slut, but she's the best slut in town! hahaha! For me, that tag line is a compliment. Just like a brilliant actor, she plays the role very well. Look at her now, after all what happened, she managed to climb up the charts with a breeze. Every single that she realeses becomes a hit.

Oh going back to her new single "If You Seek Amy", ever wondered why she entitled it that way? You prolly are asking who Amy is. Or why she is looking for her.. haha.. Simple. The title actually is delivering a message. Read the title again - slowly.

IF - YOU - SEEK - A - MY .. Gets? Haha! It actually sounds like:

F - U - C - K - ME!

hahaha! I know, right??? What a whore! An astonishingly incredible, multi-talented and the best whore there is..

Super Friends

There may be a lot of people in our lives that we can call "friends". But only a few becomes our best. It has been a long time since i wanted to create a blog about these people who greatly impacted my life by being with me during my best and worst. By the way, i am still thankful to everyone who befriended me and made me a part of their lives too so dont be hurt if your name wont be mentioned here. Okay? You also played an important role in my life.. These people below are; shall we say, knows me inside and out and stood by me "all the way".

FYI: This is not arranged.. No ranks or whatever!


My Detch

I met him during my convergys days. He was an ex of my previous room mate. We started as casual friends just like everybody else. We became closer when we transferred to peoplesupport. We had exactly the same shift and break schedules. We talk a lot and share about our crazy and coomplicated lives. We eat and go out together. What became funny during that time was, we were tagged in the office as a couple. The rumor spread like an airborne virus that it didn't stop at our department. It reached the nearby accounts and even at the other building. Unbelievable! We didnt expect our friendship was that interesting. hahaha! So what we did was just ignored everyone. We know the truth anyway. We talk about boys, boys and lots of boys. hahaha! And oh, we talk about... men too. hahahha! From clothes to food, shopping, gym memberships and workout, videoke and bar hopping, we do it together. We also exchange referrals on "buddies".. haha! u figure it out! I love my detch so much because he was there whenever im sad, depressed and down. He's also there whenever im happy and when good luck is on my side. He is one friend i couldn't replace with anything else.

PS: in case you're wondering why we call each other "detch", lemme tell u its etymology. It came from a tawagan "dude". But we're not straight, so it should be "dudette". But since "dudette" is so gay and too long to say, we made a short cut -dette. Now, for us "dette" sounds dull so we added -ch after it and then it became "detch". hehehe!

It has been a long time since we have seen each other. Im in a new company now and he's somewhere else. I miss him. Hoy detch pakita na! haha!


Ateh Einnor

Same with my detch, i met ateh einnor in cvg. We became close when i opened up my ballistic love life to him. haha! I got surprised when he just listened to every whines i had. He didn't mind my crazy and non sense stories. And also, ive gotta mention that he never fails to fill my tummy everytime we meet. hahahaha! im always busog. We talk about everything over a buffet or tonz of variety of food. I attempted to treat him but he didnt let me. hahaha! Actually i became shy - but guess what, i got over it. hahaha! Don't worry teh, one day, ill treat u and u cant do anything but let me. I can always count on him. He is always there whenever i call him and wouldnt think twice.


THE BFF's

What can be more fun than hanging out with these 3 ladies: PAULina, DHONatela and Princess KD? NOTHING! It used to be "fab 4". Now they just changed it to BFF, just because it so like maarte and very posh! like us! hahaha! Whenever im with them i feel so welcomed and comfortable. We can just sit down at a coffee shop around 10 in the evening and leave there at about 3 in the morning. haha! well, we just talk, talk, talk, and talk. Chika here, libak there and kantyaw everywhere. We talk about anything and anyone under the sun, the moon, the stars and the rainbow! hahaha! They are the people i call for an ice cream emergency. There was one time when i freaked out at 2 in the morning bacause of that insanely ridiculous reason that i do regret today it happened. jeez! We all met me up and talked about it. I couldn't forget that moment - and that was not the only instance they did that. I love them so much. They are the type of friends who can make me laugh my problems out loud. They make me burst it all out and then make me feel that i am not alone. Like my detch and ate einnor, they saw what a cry-baby i am. They know how i get wasted and lose all the grip i could possibly have over things. These girls just - rock!


Nanay

Before i even met all of them (above), i already have my "nanay". I met him because of my first boyfriend. That was during my junior years at college. Every after school i always make "tambay" at his place. Our friendship grew as years passed by. He is my confidant. He knows everything about my "escapades" that time. And whenever i have a new love interest, he was the first person who'd know. We had a lot of good memories together - and with all our other friends. I could still remember those times when we were still students - we always go to Abuhan, ramos to eat an eat all u can buffet snacks for only 50 pesos. That was the only buffet that we can afford wherein we could fill our stomache to the highest level. It makes me smile reminiscing those times. :) Also, I really appreciate the way he welcomes me into his home here in cebu. His place was my second home. Thats also why i call him 'nanay'. Its like im his adopted son. hehehe! Oh by the way, he just graduated. Congratulations nay.. A soon to be lawyer. Good luck to your bar exams this september.

What would have i done during all those terrible days without you all, my friends?? I could not thank you enough. I am so thankful to have bumpt into your ways. My life wouldn't be this fabulous if it weren't because of YOU.

You guys make me remember how God loves me. He made us F.R.I.E.N.D.S.